This is the place:
Disciplinary Procedures - From the Encyclopedia on Mormonism
Overcoming Masturbation - A guide to Self-Control, as distributed within the Church and at BYU
Being Gay and Making It Through BYU - a collection of profiles on gay BYU alumni.
New Order Mormons - "For those who know the disquieting aspects of the faith, but who choose to remain connected."
On Being Gay and Mormon - On-going reflections on my experience of being gay and Mormon, by Aaron Vinck
(convert at 16, active for 10+ years, returned
missionary, 30-something divorced father
Reform Mormonism - A healthier way to be Mormon.