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DOCTRINE - POLYGAMY - LAWFUL TO LEAVE A MAN FOR A HIGHER AUTHORITY


"But there was a way in which a woman could leave a man lawfully - when a woman becomes alienated in her feeling and affections from her husband, it is his duty to give her a bill and set her free - it would be fornication for a man to cohabit with his wife after she had thus become alienated from him...Also, there was another way in which a woman could leave a man - if the woman preferred a man higher in authority and he is willing to take her and her husband gives her up. There is no bill of divorce required, in [this] case it is right in the sight of God."

 - Brigham Young, from Conference Reports, 8 Oct. 1861, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, with acknowledgement to Divorce Among Mormon Polygamists, Eugene E. Campbell and Bruce L. Campbell, The New Mormon History, Signature Books 1992.