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DOCTRINE- POLYGAMY - LYING FOR THE LORD


Excerpt from Carmon Hardy's essay "Lying for the Lord":

"Given the mobbings, dispossessions, and murders that were so often the lot of the Saints, there is good reason for tendencies toward enclosure. We earlier remarked on the sense of insecurity and the formative significance of such things in early Mormonism generally. This undoubtedly explains why the prophet laid such store by loyalty and friendship. Joseph's instruction to the Quorum of Twelve Apostles in 1839, born of cruel experience, was, above all else, "do not betray your Friend." A connection between secrecy and friendship was made in 1841 when he said that the reason more "secrets of the Lord" were not revealed was because so few could keep them. This was followed, once more, by emphasis on the need to observe and honor friendship even to death. Justus Morse told how, as a Danite in Missouri in 1838, he and others were directed to assist each other when in difficulty by lying, "and to do it with such positiveness and assurance that no one would question our testimony." The greatest of evils, Joseph said in his 1839 address to the apostles, were "sinning against the Holy Ghost and proving a traitor to the brethren." Mosiah Hancock remembered that the prophet spoke on the subject in Nauvoo, lamenting that he had been betrayed by some who were closest to him. Given the perils and social complexities involved, it is easy to understand why dissimulation was used in protecting the church's polygamous affairs.

Neither Mormon nor Gentile, it was sometimes said, was able to absorb a full disclosure of the truth. Not only had Saint Paul indicated that new converts must be fed a modified doctrinal diet, but Joseph Smith, in an early revelation, referred to his followers as "little children," unable to "bear all things now." On other occasions he spoke of the inexpedience of telling all, of the non-written nature of some of his revelations, and the great difficulty he had in teaching things contrary to tradition. Brigham Young remembered that, as early as in Kirtland, the prophet told him that if he was open about what he had received from heaven, "not a man or woman would stay with me." And Levi Hancock recalled that Joseph once remarked to him that if he were to reveal all God had shown him, his own followers would seek his life. The sense of peril, if all were made public, extended to a concern for the entire Mormon community."What would it have done for us," asked Orson Hyde later, "if they had known that many of us had more than one wife when we lived in Illinois? They would have broken us up, doubtless, worse than they did!"

Mormon leaders undoubtedly found the deceit involved an onerous condition. This may be why the prophet counseled the Female Relief Society not to be overzealous in their search for wrongdoing and to be charitable toward the accused. He was especially aggravated by stories about adultery and the taking of spiritual wives. Discomfort with holding a curtain to the eyes of Mormons themselves prompted Joseph to attempt, on more than one occasion, a cautious unveiling of the practice...

Polygamous activities by the leaders, and the deceit considered necessary to shelter them, contributed directly to the assassinations of Joseph and Hyrum Smith. During the city council debate over allegations in the Expositor concerning his doctrines and behavior toward women, Joseph found it necessary to double back upon himself, declaring he had not kept the doctrine secret but had taught it openly. It was nearer the truth a few months later when, raging against the proposal that it was yet necessary to hide things about the church, the prophet's widow told William Clayton that "it was secret things which had cost Joseph and Hyrum their lives."

Dissimulation did not cease when the Saints moved west. Although greater freedom existed as early as their stay in Iowa, there was still reticence about their marriage philosophy, and secrecy was enjoined on participants. In a well-known 1850 debate with Protestant ministers in France, Apostle John Taylor, although the husband of ten wives, denied that polygamy was practiced in the church, saying that it was a thing "too outrageous to admit of belief." Orson Pratt, on call to publicly champion the practice, bent facts about it. And many years later Charles W. Penrose admitted that, after the prophet's death, some things about him were deleted from church publications "for prudential reasons."

So far as the practice of plural marriage in the Great Basin is concerned, Brigham Young once said that, while some told the outside world it did not exist, he refused to blanket the facts."I never deny it," he said."I am perfectly willing that…[non-members] should know that I have more than one wife and they are pure before the Lord and are approved in his sight." At the same time, in connection with his theories of the godhead, Young said he withheld much of what he knew. And George A. Smith revived the theme of a filtered exposure for those young in knowledge of the Gospel. The majority of things sacred and binding on the Saints, said another, properly remained unwritten. Emphasis on the importance of protecting friends also continued. In 1859, probably as part of an effort to obscure church connection with the Mountain Meadows massacre, apostles Amasa Lyman and George A. Smith fulminated against doubting members who "sought to betray and expose their brethren into the hands of their enemies."

When the national campaign against Mormon polygamy became intense, the use of non-truths spread rapidly to the larger body of the church. In his account of the legislative and constitutional extremes to which Idaho legislators felt they must go, John D. Hicks described those Mormon tactics that provoked the response. It was alleged, he said, that "when polygamists were prohibited from voting, the Mormons promptly swore that they were not polygamists; when those who taught polygamy were discriminated against, everybody immediately became silent on the subject; and when members of organizations which advocated polygamy were denied the ballot, they withdrew…from the Mormon Church." Children were instructed to deny knowledge of family relationships, of their parents' whereabouts, and even of their own last names. One church authority was so concerned about the pervasiveness of intentional falsehood that he feared for its effect on the moral fiber of Mormon society. In a letter to President John Taylor in 1887, Charles W. Penrose expressed concern that "the endless subterfuges and prevarications which our present condition impose…threaten to make our rising generation a race of deceivers."

...It was hardly unexpected, then, that the Woodruff Manifesto was probably drawn, and certainly interpreted, with ulterior purposes in view. Mormonism's continued support for polygamy after 1890, and the use of devices to obscure it, was but a perpetuation of styles long practiced. There was a difference, however, in that after 1890 leaders found it necessary to exclude not only Gentiles but many church members from a knowledge of newly authorized plural contractions. This returned the church to circumstances analogous to those under the Prophet Joseph Smith in Nauvoo. Whereas all Mormons, polygamous and non-polygamous, might take umbrage from attacks on the church's tenets during the crusade, after 1890 they were divided into two classes of their own: those who believed the leaders' pretensions about the abandonment of polygamy and those who looked upon such statements as a hedge against discovery of the truth. As in the Nauvoo period, those aware of these things had to reconcile them as best they could. Franklin S. Richards once told Carl A. Badger how he appropriated purposeful inconsistencies by his leaders. He put such problems aside, he said, by considering the good and the noble men and women in the church, as opposed to what he would forfeit by rejecting them for their faults.

...The pressure on those undertaking plural marriages in the post-Manifesto years was extraordinarily intense. Katherine C. Thomas, whose father, George Mousley Cannon, had married her mother as a polygamous wife in 1901, said she and her siblings were told not to ask their parents about their plural relationship. As a child she was instructed to conceal from others the identity of her father, and as a first grader in Salt Lake City she was required to attend school using a false name. Anthony W. Ivins's son, Heber Grant Ivins, told of his dismay as a youngster when a church officer visiting with one of his plural families in the Ivins home lectured one of his children on the need to give a false name when asked by others who she was. Later, after he became an apostle and moved to Salt Lake City, another of Ivins's children, Florence, described how, following a meeting with fellow apostles and the First Presidency, her father seemed upset. When Florence asked her mother what the matter was, Mrs. Ivins confided to her that during the meeting President Smith had said he "would lie any day to save [his]…brother." Ivins—who, as we saw at the time of the Smoot investigation, had always opposed deceit—was shaken. Florence said that she believed her father troubled over President Smith's statement for the rest of his life.

With the world divided into those for and those against, suspicions sometimes partook of an intramural character, infecting relationships between quorum members themselves. At the time of the Smoot investigation, when great care was taken to coordinate answers and cloak Senator Smoot with the appearance of ignorance regarding the polygamous activities of his colleagues, for reasons yet unclear one of the plural wives of President Joseph F. Smith referred to Apostle Charles W. Penrose as "a Judas." Uneasiness also led some leaders to caution their colleagues not to write everything that was said and done in their diaries. Referring specifically to the journals of George Q. Cannon and Abraham H. Cannon, Joseph F. Smith feared their enemies might gain access to and use such materials against them. For this reason some urged that no private record of what transpired in their meetings be kept by individual apostles at all.

Men engaged in what they believe are great causes naturally order the data of their perceptions to vouchsafe their dearest goals. This is not always a conscious process...However disingenuous they may have appeared to an outsider, it is unlikely Mormon leaders sensed anything but righteous consistency in their defensive adaptations for so high a cause as plural marriage.

Matthias F. Cowley provides another illustration of how malleable, in threatened circumstances, traditional values can be. At the time of his hearing before the Quorum of Twelve Apostles in 1911, describing how he had performed post-Manifesto plural marriages when authorized by George Q. Cannon and others, he related the chastisement he once received for consulting too broadly in certain cases. He also spoke of the practice of pre-dating post-1890 plural marriages so as to make them appear to have occurred before the Manifesto."I mention these things," he said, "only to show the training I have had from those over me." He might have added that they were but drawing on the teachings of others before them. Yet Cowley did not view himself as a dishonest man. In what would otherwise seem a non sequitur, he told the quorum: "I am not dishonest and not a liar and have always been true to the work and to the brethren…We have always been taught that when the brethren were in a tight place that it would not be amiss to lie to help them out." Then, in words remarkably close to those that troubled Anthony W. Ivins (and those remembered from an earlier occasion by Justus Morse), Cowley said he had heard a member of the First Presidency say that "he would lie like hell to help the brethren."

In addition to a commitment to friendship, and the capacity religious intensity has for blurring moral boundaries, Cowley's statements draw our attention to another feature of the Mormon belief system. Church authorities from the time of the prophet Joseph Smith onward placed great stress on the need for "following the brethren." Because men and women were thought not able always to see as far and as clearly as their leaders, church members were told that, when confronted with doubt or difference, they should subordinate their judgment to that of priesthood superiors.

To these explanations must be added another. In the minds of some, their circumstance was entirely involuntary. The Saints had been brought to a condition in which they must be true either to their religion, with its requirements, or to their country, with, in their view, its unrighteous laws. This unwanted dilemma is what gave them cloven speech and manners. Anxious justification was clearly what prompted President John Taylor to declare in 1880: "Have we done anything covertly? Not until we were forced to." Richard W. Young, a prominent Salt Lake City attorney and stake president, struggled with the same issue before the Smoot investigating committee in accounting for false denials in the early church. Although uncomfortable with such things, Young explained them as the result of "exigency" and "circumstances."

Men yet living with plural wives, contrary to the law and after the Manifesto was interpreted as prohibiting it, were, said another churchman, like one having to pull his ox from the mire on the sabbath. Henry S. Tanner explained it best. The promises made by the Mormons to the government, he said, were extracted by force. It was like a man seized by a powerful foe and compelled to say things ordinarily repugnant as the only way to obtain his freedom. Under such circumstances, Tanner stated, the words had no binding power. Consequently, the Mormons were as free as if they had made no promises at all. By interpreting anti-Mormon laws as Satanic artifice in which the Saints had become involuntarily ensnared, those who continued to marry and live polygamously were forced to prevaricate as the only way of escape.

The Book of Mormon prophet, Nephi, once was instructed to take the life of another that God's purposes might be fulfilled. With His help the Saints could outwit the enemy again. Verbal contortions might be inspired. Church leaders sincerely believed that God sometimes led them by a different way when important things were at stake. When Heber J. Grant astonished Judge John W. Judd by telling him that he did not intend to observe the laws prohibiting polygamous cohabitation, Judd asked about Grant's signed promise that, if given amnesty, he would keep such laws. The apostle was reported to answer "that that made no difference, [because] every man who signed had to make his election of the force of his signature." This was close to the thrust of Apostle John Henry Smith's alleged remark that the Woodruff Manifesto was but "a trick to beat the devil at his own game." Like the Shia of Islam, Mormons believed that dissimulation for the cause really was not wrong. Because they were compelled, by lying with mental reservation the faithful were yet in the service of the Lord.

History is generous with examples of individuals responding in similar ways when caught in circumstances like those confronting the Saints. Not only were there instances in scripture, like Abraham, who had such resorts forced upon them, but in every war there have been cases when to lie was construed as an act of patriotism. And what is to be said of the deceit surrounding circumvention of things like British taxes in the colonial period or the fugitive slave laws? Heber Bennion, recalling President Heber J. Grant to memory of the Mormon practice of false denial in the past, reminded him that, depending on the circumstance, it could be quite acceptable. If such behavior were to be categorically condemned, what of the countless fibs told to children in the interest of benign myth? What was to be done with Jacob lying to obtain Esau's blessing? And, he asked, what of President Joseph F. Smith's purposeful misstatements before the Smoot investigating committee? These same considerations led Anthony W. Ivins's son Grant to plead extenuation in the church's behalf. Given the high priority attached to the practice of polygamy, one can understand the lengths to which Mormon determination was carried in preserving it...

Most fundamentally, what brought these trials upon the church was the decision to project only the appearance of compromise. As Senator Joseph Bailey said when interrogating Joseph F. Smith in 1904, given the alleged gravity of their attachment to the doctrine, he would have thought that, as Christians, Mormons would have gone "to the stake" before temporizing with plurality. A policy of pretense once taken, however, casuistry, secrecy, and moral contradiction necessarily followed. And this, just as certainly, invited charges of hypocritical behavior. After the turn of the century, outsiders more than once observed that Mormon leaders consistently stood for honest policies—so long as their own affairs were not involved. As one gentile resident was reported to express it, "When any of us sin…we sin for our own sakes." But when a Saint crossed the line, it was done "for Christ's sake."

Last of all, the use of mistruth as a device for assisting the survival of plurality provided a nursery for those who continue in polygamy today. Mormon fundamentalism is at least partially a consequence of such tactics..."


 - from Solemn Covenant: The Mormon Polygamous Passage by B. Carmon Hardy, Urbana and Chicago: University of Illinois Press, 1992, pp. 365-378.