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DOCTRINE - POLYGAMY - SCRATCHING AND FIGHTING

"[I]t is frequently happening that women say they are unhappy. Men will say 'My wife, though a most excellent woman, has not seen a happy day since I took my second wife;'...another has not seen a happy day for five years. It is said that women are tied down and abused: that they are misused and have not the liberty they ought to have; that many of them are wading through a perfect flood of tears, because of the conduct of some men together with their own folly. I wish my own women to understand, that what I am going to say is for them as well as others, and I want those who are here to tell their sisters, yes, all the women of the community, and then write back to the States, and do as you please with it. I am going to give you from this time to the 6th day of october next, for reflection, that you may determine whether you wish to stay with your husbands or not, and then I am going to set every woman at liberty and say to them, Now go your way, my women with the rest, go your way. And my wives have got to do one of two things; either round up their shoulders to endure the afflictions of this world, and live their religion, or they may leave, for I will not have them about me. I will go into heaven alone, rather than have scratching and fighting around me."

 - Brigham Young, from Journal of Discourses, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 4:55, with acknowledgement to Divorce Among Mormon Polygamists, Eugene E. Campbell and Bruce L. Campbell, The New Mormon History, Signature Books 1992.